The man That Sleeps On the Floor Can Not Fall Out of Bed

Don't Disappoint Yourself

One of the most common causes of self-defeat (meaning failure in our career or relationships) is the expectation that others will see us as a disappointment. Maybe our parents saw us this way, or perhaps we experienced our mother or father acting this out in his or her life. Though consciously we want to do well and be successful, an emotional conflict is created by our lingering expectation of being a disappointment. The most painful aspect of this emotional attachment is our own sense of being a disappointment to ourselves. Most people with this emotional challenge do not understand how determined they are, unconsciously, to hold on to the feeling of disappointment.

Self-Nuturing

Be honest about what you really want, Beware of self-sacrifice. Deprivation can breed resentment

Seeing Clearly

After watching Hitch for the ump'tinth time 2'day and drawing inspiration from the love doctor. I feel that I should impart my impractical wisdumb upon the Earth cause folks is going through it ~

All day long I've been providing advice and counsel ... I'ont know if "I" was sought out specifically to be a willing conduit into the world of men or if it was because I was the first ninja without a full-time day job  they could get a hold of. (But that's not the point, please keep up)

Maddening, exalting, thrilling and frustrating « The promise of "a four letter word beginning with L and ending in E" that's right kids LOVE. I will no longer write this word out as it has caused so much confusion 2'day. Let's call it "a four letter word beginning with L and ending in E" ... anyway what was I saying ¿ Oh yeah a four letter word beginning with L and ending in E continues to drive folk into insanedness (ßrianism) trying to find the perfect partner. Here is something that The Merciless God of Perfection doesn't want you to know » Perfection may not be worth the price, you are only human ... relax.

Ya'll didn't see my tweet 2'day from Twitter  well if you were following MrTramueL on Twitter at http://twitter.com/MrTramueL you would have *Clears Throat for Speech* Mr.TramueL on the reflecting pool ...be careful what you wish for, Physical attraction isn't everything.

Physical vs Chemical in a physical reaction two substances are mixed or ground together without being transformed, meaning both can be recovered from such a mixture in their original state. A chemical reaction, on the other hand, produces an entirely new substance, one that is very different from either of the reactants and does not easily yield the original substances back again. *Science* ... I know, I know you have questions,"Mr.TramueL what are you talking about? I thought we were discussing a four letter word beginning with L and ending in E?" and you are right we are but Mr.TramueL's Law Of  intellectual Obscurity States: What fun is it to be a willing counduit into the world of men if you make yourself easy to understand? (Please stay on your toes) A relationship is more like the resulting compund in a chemical reaction - it is a discrete third entity that is more than just the mixture of the two, a whole new substance.

I'ont feel like writing any more so Imma just hip you with a few points to make your relationship last (do as I say not as I do) that's right Mr.tramueL is a four letter word beginning with L and ending in E enabler.

• Refuse to allow others to push your buttons. One trick is to grow a whole new set of buttons that can not be easily pushed.
• Try to distinguish between needs and wants. What you seem to want most is not what you really need, in most cases.
• Give unconditionally.To give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying for something.

 P.S. Has anyone seen Cressida? I ain't talking about a Toyota either, Robinne Lee ... she played Cressida Baylor in Hitch. I sure would like to react with her.

Unspoken Communication

"She" said ... we need to communicate more.

Mr.TramueL™ Translation: I need to communicate more? (Rhetorical)

We need to even out highs & lows We need to take time to explain ourselves We need to spend more time 2'gether

... I guess we shouldn't take communication for granted

MURDEROUS | A FULLER PERSPECTIVE

 

I often sigh with relief,

When from these dreams I awake,

Blood spatter, brain matter,

Gurgling sounds the dying make,

Convulsing with gibberish,

Clawing at air,

Darting pupils lose focus,

Glaze over to stare,

If they went down fighting,

Look under their nails,

Or see if they drew blood,

Telling dead men's tales,

I have dreams of torture,

Rounds fired through joints,

Semi-automatic muzzle flashes,

Ligaments exploded by hollowpoints,

The brain wants to live,

The body wants to die,

As if appealing to reason,

I keep hearing "WHY?!?"

Convinced we are strong,

Our bodies are weak,

Vertabrae snap with a twist,

Blades easily spring leaks,

Suicide is just selfish,

Welcome to my hell,

Ive watched your so-called lives,

From the abyss in which I dwell,

Even the strongest don't survive,

When cutoff from breath,

Life's one guarantee,

Is randomness of death.

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This was written by Edward Fuller *Always Deep* ... WFHS Standup!

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his own life? (Luke 12:25)

I felt compelled to share my thoughts because this verse has been the topic of much discussion in my life for the past few months. It has touched me in most of my most important relationship categories; love, friendship, family & work.

Amicability & Animosity - Free yourself from unnecessary worry, accentuate the positive, beware of invidous comparisons.

Freedom from Negativity - Resepct differences & don't try to gloss over or eliminate them. Try to emancipate yourself from old scripts.

Compromises for Sanity

Take a break from other people's demands. Empty your mind. Let yourself be bored occasionally. Work on accepting what fate dishes out.

Well Camouflaged

Why hide? Let other people see what you are really like ...

Why do women automatically assume that a man is trying to holla, run game or get the goodies? No b*tch sweetie we work 2’gether, I’m just trying to extend some professional courtesy. Trying to show yo’ crusty ass feet some love.

*Stepping Away For a Minute* I have low tolerance for nasty, dark baby toes! Please stop going to the Chinese shop at the mall and go to a spa. I only like crust on my pizza.

*... and I'm back* I’ve been told that I give off an air of “unapproachedness” « TramueLism™ ... okay maybe ♬the first time ever you saw my face♬ but after 7 years? Really? You still can’t make eye contact and part your lips to at least smile? It must be so hard walking around with a platinum vagina huh? I know, I know "My short skirt is a liberation flag in the women's army. I declare these streets, any streets, my vagina's country." (The Vagina Monologues)

From now on you get the Gas Face

Impersonation

Know who you are. Examine what attracts you to that special person, solve your own mystery. Don't lose yourself in someone else's drama.

It's me ... Mr.TramueL

Emotional Polemics

•August 13, 2009 • Leave a Comment (Edit)

Struggling with ideas, methods, outlook and concept in a relationship ¿ (No need to answer it was rhetorical) Differences like these can lead into polemical  attacks on each other in almost any area of daily life » probably leads to endless discussions and confrontations.

I’m learning to accept opposing points of view and to limit the scope of  disagreements. Bringing up shit “things” from five or six months ago is a mute point and should be addressed with out the “ed” {… kids stay on your toes “in the present tense.”}

Sometimes we sit around arguing about nothing over think things and make too much out of nothing , my personal situation is soo much deeper than I’m willing to share with the world, however because I asked (Rhetorically) here is a TramueLism™ … most men want to be in a committed relationship with a woman , I mean how long can you keep smashing chicks with reckless abandonment and continue having endless one night stands “doing me”. « Women love to call BS on this but us men think different. We have an incessant need to  make sure things are right {education and career} before we take the next step. No one wants to walk in and over hear that conversation between yo’ woman and her girls § cause’ if things aren’t right you know it’s coming up in the next “This Nicka Ain’t Isht” meeting §

DISCLAIMER: The random thought of “smashing girls … ” was an attempt at levity and not an endorsement for being unhealthily addicted to sex misguided souls.

NEEDED: A Practical Modus Vivendi

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Women wearing "stomach shirts" with well ... Stomachs

I wish I could take a picture of this (insert explicative here) but the sound from my flash would alert the "Decepticons" of my intent. They need not worry, I have no intentions of super imposing Halle's head on their body. I ain't in the best shape but you won't see me in a speedo thong! To quote Trey Songz "Yo nickas should have clowned you for puttin' that (anotha explicative) on" Seeing it put me on life support ... when her friend walked in with the same ish on it pulled the plug.