I try to live my life without regrets, but if I’m to be completely honest with myself, I do wish I could have a do over or two. I’d love to go back and tell that skinny, long-legged creature, forged in the land of track Gods, not to get off the track!
Read MoreAs a child I oftentimes wanted to live inside my dreams. Most were peaceful and unruffled. I was able to blossom as the crocus in the winter snow. However my dreams were soon awakened by reality at the age of 6 with the death of my father and two uncles. In the blink of an eye the three of them were taken away, leaving me to begin experiencing the harshness of life at an early age.
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Youth? What youth?
We have forced our children to grow up too soon
We expose them to adult experiences and wonder where things go wrong
You might not think it’s that serious but it’s more serious than you think
Read MoreI remember my pre teen years were frustrating and crazy. My body was going thru different changes and I didn’t look like the girls in my school. I was the skinny kid with no type of shape.
Read MoreOne of the critiques of the Church is that it falls short of fulfilling a vital role; providing a voice during social unrest. The Church, to a large extent is a reflection of our community and many look for counsel; from the Bible and those called to serve.
Rev. Dr. Reginald Boyd, Jr shares his sermon from Sunday August Twenty Four Two Thousand Fourteen where he provides counsel from the Bible and answers "how shall we be at peace in a time such as this..."
The message begins on page three, please read and share your thoughts.
Read Moreadolescence, formative years, early stages, all reference a period of life that some may look back on as most difficult, to say the least. It could be a time when one is trying to “find him/herself”. We often hear leaders telling young people to “be original, be a game changer, lead don’t follow, set your path and follow it”. Here’s the irony, when they do, they get penalized for it.
Read MoreYouth. They say it's wasted on the young.
Truth? It's not a finite commodity that's tracked, spent and limited for thee.
Seek to do at least one thing, every day, to improve your mental, spiritual, physical and fiscal well-being and you shall remain forever young.
Read MoreMany of us identify with a period in our youth characterized by a love of exploration and a spontaneous, direct expression that shapes our individual world view. I've asked a group of dynamic living souls to share their thoughts, stories, memories, prayers, and call to action on the subject of youth. What I believe will be an expansive and altruistic sharing of their home, family, roots, emotions and sense of self-worth will be presented everyday throughout the month of September.
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The last day for four-hundred plus living souls from Bank of America's default mortgage servicing group. A group I was a part of less than five months ago. A group I was a part of due to a previous "workforce reduction" in Commercial Mortgage Backed Securities. As I communicated with a few strong connections on their well being, it could only be described as a delicate duality; I Am blessed to have preempted the job loss and sad that so many others are now faced with the debilitating time connected with it.
Read MoreMonday I took Maestro out for a walk. It was early; we were up and out before the Sun.
Not one foot out of the driveway, I hear voices elevating from across the street. I can't see them as they are covered by dusk. I walk a few more feet intent on ignoring these young people.
None of my business, besides answers create questions.
Read MorePrevious relationships I found myself daydreaming/ planning ahead. Those dreams were always exclusive to the three of us; and by us I mean me, myself and I. Thats not meant to take away from anyone I've dated. I've written before how fortunate I've been to have loved and been loved by some incredible women.
Read MoreLast year I was pretty upset with the customer service I received from Verizon Wireless and threatened to cancel my service, well they took my threat literally and did it for me. I couldn't even be mad, I was pretty vocal about my disapproval. This led to a three month period between carriers, my intent was to reopen the account with Verizon but made an interesting discovery while I was without service.
Read MoreI've written previously that I ride CATS [Charlotte Area Transit System] to and from work everyday. Also that I purchase a 10 ride local pass. Yesterday on the evening ride home I step on, insert my card into the reader and it is not returned. Here inlays the disconnect.
Read MoreWhile on our morning walk, Maestro our 2 year old Cocker Spaniel, rarely barks. The dogs in our neighborhood are either behind fences or kept indoors. There is one however that is on a chain and the owner(s) normally leave him unattended in the front yard. He is pretty agressive to passerbys; canines and people alike.
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Sexiness behind a short sleeveless gown, I see you.
Lavender fused with sweet, creamy vanilla early morning kiss(es), I taste you.
A hand on leg, a foot touching a foot, I feel you.
You feel me?
"Honey can you push the air up?", her voice is like melted caramel, I hear you.
A forehead kiss... Baby ButterCreme, I smell you.
The love she exudes is amazing, I just yell "Fly Woman Get Em'"
I Am
"Your behavior is the key to taking control of your money, and your money is tied to your relationships."
This observation would have stayed in my journal however this week I've had pragmatic discussions with girls that are friends in different stages of "relating." One married, one single and one engaged. Issue(s) with money was the conversation starter for all three.
Read More"With a view like that, we're just surprised you didn't push for more. Did the run feel as epic as the view looks?"
Read MoreThoughts on Retirement first appeared on Retirement Savvy Dot Net
Vocation is rooted in the Latin word for voice, loosely translated it means a summons or call. The word has been secularized and reduced to meaning job or work.
Work, an inescapable reality. At times we feel that our lives are enhanced by it and at others depleted by it. James Molet, Blogger-in-Chief at Retirement Savvy ask(ed) an important question about the age of retirement.
Read MoreThe three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.
Read MoreDog people bear witness to the incredible focus of their four-legged friends. While we prepare food or eat a meal their heads never shift, eyes locked, concentrating on every hand movement or every bite. While I steal time everyday to reflect, their mental experience encourages me to meditate. The absence of intention, without distractions has to be beneficial to both mental and physical health.
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